What You Control

No matter how badly you want to do it, you can't control what someone else does. You can only control your reaction to it. It is your choice whether to live in peace or fear. Because when we try to control people, situations, or outcomes, it is always coming from a place of fear. This fear stems from an unhealthy belief system around our relationship with God, that He is a punishing God. When we know that we are Love, that we are One with Him, that He has our highest good, then we can accept the circumstances in our life, knowing that they are part of a bigger plan that we cannot see from our limited perspective. And we can accept and love others as they are, seeing them as ourselves because we are One. We may not agree or like their actions or words, and their choices may mean that we discern that they don't need to be part of our lives, but we don't judge them and we honor their right to lead their life as they choose, knowing that God has them. By honoring their choices and divinity, we affirm our divinity. Lawrence Doochin These posts are similar to the over 2100 contained on The Divine Speaks website where God gives YOU the one that you need to hear at that time. http://www.thedivinespeaks.com/