Should Be

Do you realize that a great deal of your internal conflict and angst comes from expectations that aren't being met. You live in a "should be" paradigm.

I should be in a relationship at this point. I should be more spiritual. I should have accumulated more abundance by now. I should have done something to better help the world.

All of these "should be's" can only lead to self judgment as you don't meet your own expectations. Comparison and judgment are not part of God because they do not exist in Oneness. Drop your "should be's" and your comparisons and your self judgment will fall away. When self judgment falls away, only God remains.

Lawrence Doochin

These posts are similar to the over 2500 contained on The Divine Speaks website (www.thedivinespeaks.com) where God gives YOU the one that you need to hear at that time. Lawrence is the author of three books on emotional and spiritual healing, including "Thirteen Steps To Move From Victim Consciousness To God Consciousness: Healing Traumatic Experiences Including Sexual, Physical, Emotional, And Mental Abuse."